Quick 5 tips for Good and healthier relationship. Our lives revolve around Love be it with Family, Friends or couples and a Good Relationship always gives us the bliss and warmth that we hanker for.
Good Relationship can’t just be found every time we enter in a relation and we always strive to build a good and healthier relationship but how?
Ingredients for a healthier Relationship
One of the most important ingredients in any relationship is communication. Whether you’re being open with each other about what you really want, or make sure you tell each other about your day after work. Over a period of time we stop asking exploratory questions or rather we give lesser time we did when we first started dating.
Solution is to start thinking as you were on the first or second date don’t do a role play but ask fun questions or talk which excites you both the most could be anything i.e. ‘You’ve just won the lottery, what will you spend it on?’ or what if we go to some of his/er favorite place. Your only task is to take away from day to day activity and open the communication channel.
Trust in relationship means that you have confidence in them and you feel safe with them physically and emotionally also it means that they are reliable to you and it can only be built only when both of you decide to trust each other. Trusting your partner to be there for you when’re going through a hard time when you’re struggling with life. They always act as shield in life and protect us from all germs around.
You can love someone even though you can’t trust him/her. But it is not a healthy relationship. You should learn to trust or if you really can’t maybe you should get out of it. There’s no sense in loving someone without trusting them because love and trust completed each other.
Respect each other
Once you are we’ve gotten in a relationship, we often just forget our partner’s feelings and needs. In lasting relationship, both partners value each other and take care with their words, actions, and behaviors. If you want to be with that person each day, make them feel that way and respect his/her emotions, feelings, thoughts, words and all the sentiments which can hurt in anyways.
You will be offended and feel hurt many times throughout a relationship. The key is to forgive quickly, let go of grudges, and start over each day. Yes, this is easier said than done, but forgiveness is crucial to the long-term health of the relationship. You have to let go of trespasses and also be willing to ask for forgiveness. Forgiveness takes courage, vulnerability, and practice.
You have to be committed to your partner, yes. But more than commitment to your partner, you have to be committed to the relationship. If you think about the health and future of the relationship instead of just your own, you’re likely to take more constructive actions and behave differently. It’s not just about getting your needs met. It’s about replenishing the fire so your relationship can last.
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